This photo caught my attention and I will like to elaborate on it. Please read the card again, she spoke to her Ex boyfriend or husband after 10 years and he wanted to find out if she was still single or married, but she had become a doctor. What an achievement!!!
You see, so many ladies have been hurt and treated badly by their Ex’s, some women have made a choice of rushing into another relationship immediately or jumping into another marriage because of fear of being single, fear of being ashamed or as a revenge to prove to your Ex that you are marriageable.
One point I will like to stand out is, it’s okay to walk alone for a while if you haven’t found someone who can love and appreciate you like your Ex didn’t. There’s no competition when it comes to relationship and marriage, remember that you’re getting involved with all of your heart and mind, the reason why a lot of women get depressed when the relationship turns out to be bellow their expectations.
Marriage is an achievement, it’s like one of the beautiful stuffs you upload on your resume to make it attractive and impressive, that resume here is your life. Remember, when a profession isn’t bringing you satisfaction, you’ll hardly count it as an achievement rather you will be looking to change career or involve yourself in something more lucrative, so is marriage.
Marriage is like a career, you should continue to build. If you jump into the wrong relationship or get committed in a very heart troubling marriage, you will not feel that satisfaction and you will be looking for peace and happiness else where or maybe opting for a divorce.
After a break up, instead of wishing you had an available man you can quickly jump into a relationship with, why not upgrade your life and improve your resume. Get busy with making yourself marketable and marriageable, humbly evaluate yourself and get to the root of why your relationship did not meet your expectations or why your partner did not see you as a good match. Honestly accept your flaws and make room for improvements, in that way you can emerge a better woman and a more capable wife.
Remember, when Boaz saw Ruth, she was working not twerking. (Ruth 2:17-19) . Sexiness is beautiful but a hardworking and independent woman is irresistible.
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